Learning from Failure

What do you do when you fail at something?
You introspect! You find out mistakes. You decide not to do same mistakes again. You LEARN!
But what if you fail again at similar thing? What about your learning from previous failure? Did you do some mistake while introspecting? Did you find right mistakes?
Most of the times YES, the findings were correct but the scenario get changed.

Life is an unbroken curve of continuous learning. People keep learning because they keep doing mistakes and people succeed because they learn from each and every mistake. One cannot apply same learning at all situations because situations keep changing, so as the factors of success and failure.

There are three kinds of people in this world:
1. Those who learn from others' mistake.
2. Those who learn from their mistakes.
3. Those who do mistake and do not learn - and do mistakes again and again.

People in first category are intellectually sharpest but these people are very few in the world. They might be good at sensing the cause and eliminating the mistakes but I do not call these people the real LEARNER. A learner is one who takes a plunge, feels the failure, realizes the mistakes and then thrives!

Those who are in second category form the majority of the world's population: approximately 50-60%. but the sad part with these type of people is that they do not try enough number of times to succeed, they do not introspect deeper, they do not delve into the mistakes and if they find the mistakes they do not go one step further and devise the solution of those mistakes. Also, if they face failures again and again they stop even attempting and fall into the third category - Those who do mistakes and do not learn.

People in third category are ignorant. They ignore either because they do not want to attempt or because they leave the current battle ground and try to win somewhere else. But if someone has failed at one place chances of getting failed do not decrease by changing the battlefield.

We should not stop attempting and learning from failures. On each failure we should delve into the mistakes and try to make that base very strong so that next time even failure cannot defeat us. At every moment we should be positive and keep our moral high. If you are determined then you can cross all stages of life very easily.
Be positive - Be Happy.

Comments

  1. SkchoudheryFebruary 17, 2014 at 1:14 AM

    Yah ..but at times I fall down ..maybe by the words of others or looking at my performance .. I may be improving but looking it , it often comes in my mind that it is not enough .... ..and rather moving for the hard I'am so demotivated and stressed inside that I start loosing my concentrations.. and I simply end up demoralising myself... m vry afraid of my performance in exams though I work hard I m constantly thinking about what if I fail in the exams that simply matters so much ..
    need a little support but well I m surrounded by words that always taunt at me ...

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  2. SkchoudheryFebruary 17, 2014 at 1:16 AM

    I m shivendra...

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